

"Useless Girl"
I think of myself as a pretty neat person. Occasionally, the clean laundry sits stacked in my closet — near the hangers and shelves, but still in the same pile I brought up from the dryer. Every week, Barry and I clean the house top to bottom — him with the vacuum, me with the bathrooms, dusting, floors, furniture. The kitchen we split down the middle. But every spring, when it’s finally warm enough to open the windows, we go deeper. That’s when the cushions come off, curtain
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I Wrote a Book.
I did it. I wrote a book. And I'm still a little in shock. This book is the one I looked for my entire life and never found. So I wrote it myself. It answers the question I spent years asking — "Why do I act this way?" Not with therapy-speak. Not with platitudes. With a real framework that gets to the source. I'd love for you to read it and let me know how it impacts your life.💙 amazon.com/author/karenrubinstein
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How Do You Keep a Wave Upon the Sand?
I recover loudly. I wear it on my sweatshirts, my tees, my totes. Recover Loudly. Waiting for a table at brunch, buying dish detergent at Acme, walking the dog — someone either leans in with curiosity or quietly says, “I’ve got twelve years myself.” Sometimes I get: “You? An alcoholic? No way.” That’s exactly the point. Opening doors. Giving back. Service. My faith? That I keep quiet. Not hidden — just private. I’ve always believed that living your religion is more powerful
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